If your spouse participates in a hobby or sport they thoroughly enjoy, why not give it your support? For example, if your man plays weekend softball, why not show up to cheer him on? Should your woman sew quilts, find her a source for bargain textiles. There are many ways to show your care and interest that are not necessarily expensive or difficult to manage.
A glass of water, I thought you might be thirsty, might bring a moment of joy. Let each small effort bring a continuous string of enjoyment.
What have I been doing? We took a course in collage art years ago. It was enlightening for my love. She has since then made a hobby of specializing in creating many beautiful collages. I have always maintained a supply of necessary materials for her.
Time has passed, and eyes and hands become less adept. It is problematic now for my love to complete her collages and attend to other chores. It is not difficult to bring her a flower daily, making her feel appreciated and loved.
Happiness depends upon ourselves.
– Aristotle, 384-322 B
