In every life, rain may fall. When negative events impose
themselves on us how do we react? If we find ourselves unsettled
and distraught, are we misdirecting our energy? I think so. Negative
emotions can create physical suffering and deter us from positive
solutions.
I’ve always admired my bride’s method of handling mildly difficult
situations. She simplifies those problems with an affirmation saying
that it could be worse. She would often add that our circumstances
were small compared to many others.
In the earlier days of our marriage, Geri endured a series of
miscarriages. Those were serious and sad events for us. Doctors did
not assure that any future pregnancy would have a positive
outcome. During her one week of grief, she visualized on her
shoulder a tiny leprechaun, who assured her that the future was
bright and fruitful. And so, it was!
-Ron Forzani
