RON FORZANI

The empathic hand that reaches out when you suffer pain is true love. The sensitive lover who feels your pain is unique and precious. Hugs and handholding during difficult times are early steps towards relief and healing. We all can be healers and show consideration for those who suffer. Cherish those who give the gift […]

We meet every morning with a smile, a kiss, and a question, “Are you okay?” Responded cheerfully with, “I’m okay, are you okay?” Then we hold hands for a moment, grateful to have one another. Some thoughts that we might recite – “Let us always meet each other with a smile, for the smile is

We may believe that “bad luck” or what has happened to us is from fate. People tend to blame this force we call fate, neglecting to acknowledge that it’s their actions past or present that have created the problem. Others are influenced by a personal belief system, fortune- telling, or at worst, blaming their spouses.

Changes are inevitable and, in many cases, unavoidable. So, if you are facing a dilemma or a negative period where you don’t find a solution, give thanks to the change cycle. Look around, and you’ll find that nothing is permanent. It is normal, but to some, a big surprise to find their mate or partner

“May the sun bring you energy by day. May the moon softly restore you at night. May the rain wash away your worries. May the breeze blow strength into your being. May you walk gently through the world and know its beauty all the days of your life.” May you and your love know peace

Those who rage without care risk losing love. They may use anger to intimidate and overwhelm their partner, causing them to suffer. Ironically, both suffer because their inner peace is disrupted. If the outburst persists, the intimidation may become hatred. Grievances are not satisfied with harsh words and actions but with explanation and understanding. Full

“It’s mine!” Sounds childish, what do you think? When our child expresses this non-sharing attitude, we take the opportunity to teach the benefit of cooperation. Youngsters worry they may be losing their favorite toy, for example. As they mature, they should see the value of give and take. Mature couples should consider fair play, and

Our oldest son, an experienced skier, urged us to join him at a winter event. In a nearby town, the YMCA had set up a small ski run on the highest hill in the area. Having no experience made us reluctant, but we conceded with the assurance that it was set up for beginners. We

Being kind to your partner is a way to show love for them. Expect nothing in return for this gift. They will think positively about your kindness and your caring for their feelings. In time they will express their love for you and your actions. Be consistent regarding acts of kindness and you will fuel