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SUFFERING.

Even if we have a long and successful marriage, changes will occur. Some changes will be welcomed, but others will not be. We will eventually all suffer pain or loss in life’s journey. Self-pity, anger, or internalizing disappointment are not solutions to ease suffering. It is best to confront these disturbances and learn to cope […]

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Emotional Stability

Please find below some tips on staying emotionally well. When handled well, stress and other challenges provide clarity and strength to pursue life’s opportunities. 1. Find humor in the situation. Try laughing at yourself. Shift from a moody approach to one of joy and positivity. 2. Connect with others who may support your needs. Build

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Geri’s Leprechaun

In every life, rain may fall. When negative events impose themselves on us how do we react? If we find ourselves unsettled and distraught, are we misdirecting our energy? I think so. Negative emotions can create physical suffering and deter us from positive solutions. I’ve always admired my bride’s method of handling mildly difficult situations.

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Anna’s 1,2,3,4 Cake

Yes, this is a recipe. My mom was a good baker. As holidays approached, she would gear up to create many family favorites. These included pies, plum pudding, butter cookies, and my favorite 1,2,3,4 cake. So here it is – 2 – sticks of unsalted butter.* (quarters) 2 – cups of sugar.* 3 – cups

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Passion Verses Love

Marriage, how did I get into this thing? It must have been the passion, some might feel. How sweet and innocent she appeared. I wanted to conquer and satisfy myself. How handsome and protective he seemed. I wanted to have him at my side forever and give him myself readily. Is this love? Passion is

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Oh no, not a divorce!

10 Easy Steps to Avoid Divorce. (start to finish)  Wanting to be married places second, compared to me marrying the right person. If you feel you have engaged with the right person, let him or her know you have some necessary boundaries.  That marriage is a commitment and should last a lifetime. That parting after

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Why I’m grateful?

* I see my spouse of over 67 years as more beautiful than ever. * We have solved our problems together. It’s easier that way. * I admire her special talents and have supported her interests. She supports my talents and interests as well. * We remain affectionate and considerate. I like it that way.

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WHAT IF –

What if, today, I see through the eyes of my love? From the female perspective. I will look with admiration and say, “I love you.” I will prepare his favorite dinner. I will look my alluring best. I will tell him, “I need his love.” From the male perspective. I will say, “you are beautiful.”

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